About two years ago I received the first of several messages from college classmates expressing the desire to change the dynamic of our relationship. Admittedly in college I had very little control over my emotions and I allowed my passion to cloud my judgment. Although I may have been right in principle, I was most certainly wrong in my reactionary behavior. The former classmate reached out with a pure heart and apologized for whatever pain she had caused and I did the same. That moment touched my spirit and I was determined that I wouldn’t hold back in forgiveness or grace.
As I immersed myself in God’s word, I realized that giving someone grace was not just a nice thing to do, it was a direct reflection of God. God gives us grace without expecting anything in return. It cannot be earned or taken away. God grants us grace because He loves us even when we are not following His will. How was this possible? Unbelievable right? Grace in itself is an amazing example of the goodness of God. I reflected on how God has granted me grace and I felt compelled to challenge myself to stop complaining about what someone once did and focus on who they are in the present. Too often we do not allow people to change and grow. We judge them by their past actions but expect others to see past who we once were. Whether it is a damaged friendship or a misunderstanding with a stranger, it can be difficult to allow God to shine through you. Forgiveness, grace and sharing in the sincere apology is not for the recipient but for you. Don’t get me wrong, this is a difficult task but I promise it is worth it.
With the losses that I have suffered in the last three years (Mackenzie Grace & Madison Grace), I have learned that petty drama and meaningless arguments simply aren’t worth my time. I would rather spread positive vibes instead of negative energy. I challenge each of you to give someone grace by letting go of whatever anger or frustration you may have towards that individual. By God’s grace we are saved!
Forever Fierce, Fabulous & Flawless
Tenisha
As I immersed myself in God’s word, I realized that giving someone grace was not just a nice thing to do, it was a direct reflection of God. God gives us grace without expecting anything in return. It cannot be earned or taken away. God grants us grace because He loves us even when we are not following His will. How was this possible? Unbelievable right? Grace in itself is an amazing example of the goodness of God. I reflected on how God has granted me grace and I felt compelled to challenge myself to stop complaining about what someone once did and focus on who they are in the present. Too often we do not allow people to change and grow. We judge them by their past actions but expect others to see past who we once were. Whether it is a damaged friendship or a misunderstanding with a stranger, it can be difficult to allow God to shine through you. Forgiveness, grace and sharing in the sincere apology is not for the recipient but for you. Don’t get me wrong, this is a difficult task but I promise it is worth it.
With the losses that I have suffered in the last three years (Mackenzie Grace & Madison Grace), I have learned that petty drama and meaningless arguments simply aren’t worth my time. I would rather spread positive vibes instead of negative energy. I challenge each of you to give someone grace by letting go of whatever anger or frustration you may have towards that individual. By God’s grace we are saved!
Forever Fierce, Fabulous & Flawless
Tenisha
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